How many times has a friend said to you about another person, "People don't change!" Of course, what they are talking about are patterns of a person's behaviors, and not, of course, about a person's core personality, right?
While we certainly cannot force change on another, it is important that we realize, behaviors are learned. They are learned from our environments, and what we have allowed to become part of us, and our daily lives.
Many people were born in negative environments and learned negativity early in their lives, thus making the negativity a pattern in their lives. So, if this is all a person knows, then that's the way it is, right? Not so. In fact, so very wrong!
The circumstances of our lives at birth were there for us to learn from, grow from, and awaken from. Once our patterns of thinking change, our patterns of emotion change, and our lives are dramatically changed!
There is always a reason we are attracted to different things and situations in our lives based on what is comfortable and familiar to us, and of course, based on what we have chosen to learn and grow through here. If you want to change your life, and the negativity patterns in your life, you have to change what is familiar to you.
Your thinking must change, and your new thinking must become second nature to you. Over time, you will find, your emotional reactions to things will also start to change.
You must look for, and be grateful for, something positive in every single situation. You must work through emotional issues at the very core. Feelings are the energy that bring forth manifestation. Negative feelings are our cue that there is growth to be achieved through learning to move past issues, as well as make peace with them.
What we think and feel determines what we attract into our lives, and thus forms our world around us. If you want to change your life, put the focus inside you. It is there, where the power lies to create the life you want.